Staff Sgt. Phillip A. Myers came home from Afghanistan yesterday. Sadly, there were no family members waving tiny American flags and choking back tears of excitement at the much overdue sight of the man who stood at the center of their universe. No, Sgt Myers came home from war in a box.
It was a coffin to be exact. A flag draped coffin, moved about and handled with all the reverence and solemn ceremony only those who've worn the uniform could provide. Brothers and sisters all... tasked with a duty, a solemn trust that no one should be asked to endure. Yet they did so with pride and honor, knowing full well that, but for the grace of God....
He is a brother, after all.
Dover Air Force Base is a place of great sadness and joy, a paradox if you will. I've stepped onto it's tarmac more times than I care to remember. I have seen grown women and men, overcome with the joy of being home, kneel down and give thanks for the American soil beneath their feet. Home. A home they they sometimes doubted they would ever set foot on again... I've done so myself.
Sgt. Myers didn't have the chance to kneel and smile at the silliness the rest of us engaged in. He gave his all for his country. I hope his widow is comforted in the knowledge that the eight brothers and sisters who welcomed him home treated him with the utmost honor and respect...
He is a brother, after all.
I never met Sgt. Myers. He and I... his war and mine... are separated by a generation. I know of Sgt Myers for one reason only, I saw his flag draped coffin being solemnly brought home on the evening news. Eighteen years ago, President George H. W. Bush decided that we good citizens of America should be shielded from the true cost of war. He alone decided that an American citizen who had paid the ultimate price for their country, would be shielded from the public view.
Why? That's for the good Mr. Bush to answer. George Sr. has been to war. He knows well the cost.
I have my opinions as to why, but I'll keep them to myself if it's all the same to you.
President Clinton never saw fit to change this policy, and neither did Bush the younger... I never really understood the reluctance to show the world the respect we accord our fallen men and women. We spoke of honoring their sacrifice, yet refused to let the American public share in that moment of honor and grief... Why?
He is a brother, after all.
Our new president has saw fit to repeal the idiotic rules that forbade our public displays of grief and honor. To my mind, that's a good start to understanding war... and it's true cost.... the young who will be our future.
Vade in pace Phillip. Go in peace my brother....



